Yes this is unfortunate but as others have mentioned it kind of comes with the territory. Old ways of thinking don't change easily and I wish everyone experimenting with this change would just know and acknowledge this from the start.
You are right to carry no guilt here ! This is no-fault living/exploring. Everyone made their own choices along the way.
Ciel says it nicely............
Originally Posted by CielDuMatin
In other words she has learned something about herself.
Now N and S have non-negotiable bottom-lines that conflict with each other. They need to get that sorted out. It doesn't matter what triggered it, or what family and friends think. You were just a catalyst - if it wasn't you it would have been someone else.
Take a deep breath, keep a low profile for awhile and let the dust settle where it may. As Schrodingers cat said - these damn crystal balls just don't cut it.