Thanks for your update Aquamarine. I'm glad to hear that everyone in your "polycule" is beginning to feel more steady/balanced about things. I'm sure it's also (literally) been disorienting to try and relocate yourself on the Kinsey scale. O definitely needed a girlfriend to add to his life if you're thinking you're mostly on the homosexual end of the scale.
Keep letting us know how things are going.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"