I don't see the problem. Is not "putting out" the whole point of sex with no strings attached (or any sex)? If you want to wait with sex or have no sex at all then follow your heart and insticts.
If you want to date different kinds of men, then search for them. You might consider looking at different kids of sites, or other channels of meeting men.
Last edited by Norwegianpoly; 11-28-2013 at 02:21 AM.