Thank you so much. It's so nice to have some people to talk to about these things without fear of judgement. 10 years ago, if someone would have told me that my husband and I would fall in love with another couple, I would have laughed my head off. I still dont understand how it happened? Or how I should feel about it. One minute his love makes me euphoric and the next miserable. I guess a work in process.....thanks for your input.