I have a question....How many of you who are in a poly relation ship, have had a poly relationship last longer than a year? 2 years? 4 years? 8 years? 10 years?
It seems to me (on this forum anyway) that all I'm reading about is people who are hurt by their initial girlfriend/wife or initial boyfriend/husband.
Now please don't get me wrong, my wife and I have enjoyed about 3 poly relationships in the last 8 years. We have been married to each other for the last 19 and a half.
So, for those few who have been in a poly relationship for longer than 5 years, tell us, how do you make it last?