View Single Post
Old 11-27-2013, 05:56 AM
WhatHappened WhatHappened is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Feb 2012
Posts: 712

Originally Posted by PolyinPractice View Post
Actually, as someone who wishes to wait several years before having sex, poly is probably PERFECT for you

In a monogamous relationship, finding a sexually minded partner (as you've said you want) who is willing to wait years before going to bed with you...well, that's probably impossible.

But in a poly relationship, they could have, or be developing, another relationship, which could fulfill their physical needs till you were ready.
Originally Posted by PolyinPractice View Post
Sexual, poly, AND willing to date for several years before sex? They exist. .... but how many people like that do you know?
I think you just changed the terms of discussion.

You yourself said poly is perfect for someone who doesn't want to have sex right away, that it's monogamous relationships in which you won't find that. Now you're saying no one who is poly will accept it?

But to answer your question, yes, I do know someone who is sexual, (very sexual), poly, and willing to date for years without sex. In fact, he's even given up swinging, sex with others, everyone apart from his wife, and other relationships, in order to date the person he does, because she means that much to him.
Reply With Quote