My kids know sometimes I sleep with their father Butch. Sometimes I sleep with Murf. Honestly they never have blinked an eye. My kids are 10 and 6, Murf has been in their life over a year.
I was worried about their reaction but in reality they don't care.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.