Yeah, I often recommend OKCupid, even though I had dubious results with it myself. I know it has helped lots of people; many polycules exist today because of OKCupid! So I guess what I'm saying is it's at least worth a try.
"I'm just being myself and I'm confident that love will happen one day for me, even if it does not happen for me: I am happy now in this moment, I am content."
I like that philosophy. That's my youngest brother's philosophy at this time: living in the here and now (because the present is the only thing we can act upon).
Good luck in your searches!