In New England, "guys" also tends to be a catch-all type of phrase, somewhat similar to the South's "y'all". But I digress.
How about "ladies"? I tend to use that one.
Mono. Divorced, two kids (DanceGirl, 15; and PokéGirl, 12), two cats, one house, many projects.
My partner. Poly.
Chops' other nesting partner, Poly. Also in a relationship with Shaggy
Chops' other other partner (heh). Married, Poly.
Poly, in a relationship with Xena
External mono/poly blog: From Baltic to Boardwalk