I see. Thanks for clarifying.
I'm not sure I'd go the direction of labeling poly+RA as "true poly" . . . that seems a little heavy-handed to me, a little too much about ideological purity for my taste.
But it seems we're just using the concepts differently. Again, that's all right.
I would quibble with one point, though it would be a topic for a different thread:
Originally Posted by london
. . . nothing that is harmless is wrong.
It's a related point about concepts and frameworks as tools, but there's more to responsible conduct than avoiding harm: there are also matters of consent to be considered, which draw on a very different conception of value.
But, as I say, that's a topic for another thread.