I live with my husbands but in two separate homes. I am at Murf's house 12-14 days a month.
Every once in a blue moon Murf will spend the night at my home with Butch. He sleeps with me and Butch sleeps in the spare room.
It works well no one is really invading anyones territory.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.