Originally Posted by tabitha40
Why does he get to continue when Iím forced to end?
I think when you internalize the answer to this question, you will find it much easier to find compersion.
The answer is-because he was honest and forthright. Lying and sneaking has consequences. In your situation, the consequence was losing the opportunity with those guys.
That doesn't mean you can't meet someone else. If you managed to have that many in the last year or so-you clearly don't have an issue meeting people.
But-it does mean you have to accept the consequences for your choices.
**I say this with a lot of sympathy and understanding. Because I was the one in my relationship that cheated. But I also say it with full knowledge of how we got past that.**