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Old 11-23-2013, 02:17 PM
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Hi again, mialush. You posted almost the same thing in May of 2012.

I can't believe how excited I get thinking about him falling in love with her again. Making deep passionate love to her. Letting him know that I would support him in following his heart.

Is this normal?
People said, yes, that is compersion. Or what you might call vicarious pleasure.

I gather from your posts, you don't want another lover, male or female, and are just content with your compersion for your h's loves. That is fine, as long as your needs are being met from just your husband.

But I also wonder, like NYCindie, why you both decided moving a new person in only 4 months into the relationship was a good idea. Could be very awkward if things go bad after the new relationship energy wears off. After all, sounds like that last relationship he tried in May 2012 didn't work out...
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62) loving Pixie (poly, F, 40) since January 2009, living together since 2013
Seeing Kahlo (polyish, M, 45)
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixie's Dom/bf for 3+ years
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