I am polyfi. My two husbands are it for me. I am deeply in love with both. Have no urge for another partner. I do not fall easy at all. Murf is mono. He has no interest in other partners. Butch has a regular play partners. He is polycurious. But quotes Dr Sheldon Cooper often "Bitches be crazy." So he isn't looking.
We are family oriented but the guys maintain their own homes. The kids and I travel between the two. We do big holidays together part of the day. Butch's family is 10 hours away. Then we go to Murf's family after Butch heads to work.
It works for us. My only complaint is both my husbands have crappy work schedules which make scheduling a pain in my ass.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.