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Old 11-22-2013, 04:56 PM
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NSA sex is not normal in my poly world, but for others it may be.

As for the other issues.

Speak up be firm about your needs for time alone for more than the short time you are getting. If he can't meet your needs, which to me are not outrageous, then I would end the relationship. You deserve to get your needs met.

Situations like this is why I dislike the primary secondary relationship model.
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