Maca fought the time frame and scheduling and pre-arranged date nights until suddenly he was having to deal with figuring out WTF to do with the kids while I was gone and all that jazz.
Then he suddenly understood what it was like to just try to manage the schedule for the family and coordinate dates, sex, privacy etc. LOL!
I do tend to find that at least in our group-people seem to learn best by experience. If we just "let it ride" so they can experience the annoyance, they are pro-active in helping find a solution.