Originally Posted by WhatToDo
I don't know, doesn't seem like you went actively searching and what you did was probably something most would do in that situation. If he's that paranoid about you seeing stuff about his children then it's up to him to protect that information.
This is the way I see it too.
He obviously does not see it that way. He sees it as a really horrible thing to do, and he's torn. He's mad enough that he thinks he should dump me. He's asking questions on fetlife that make it sound like I outed him to his kids.
I am frustrated. Not sure if I should go on the thread and clarify what we're actually talking about or just fucking give up on this whole drama fest.