Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat
I've never found anything by looking for it, from common household objects to true love. But whenever I've had the sense to quit looking for something, it's usually fallen right into my lap.
I met Sir at a BDSM play party nearly five years ago. I wasn't looking, lol. I was already taken but in a failing relationship. I met Possibility at the same venue but at a different time about three years ago. I wasn't looking. Possibility and I didn't start seeing each other until a little over a year ago.
It has been my experience, as well, that NOT looking for something has the best chances of finding what it is you need.