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Old 11-20-2013, 02:13 AM
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Short story:
I have severe depression. Sometimes it lies dormant for over a year. Then slams hard.
I cheated.
I lied.

I came clean. I apologized. I did therapy. I busted my ass proving myself over a nearly 3 year timeframe.

Now-poly is working for us.

I think he's being dysfunctional and using his mental health issues as an EXCUSE for shitty behavior.

Which-makes it an unviable situation.
My depression means I have to have time to go workout. I need time to see my therapist. I need help sometimes getting to the therapist or help setting up the SAD light or encouragement to go workout.
It does NOT mean I get to mistreat my partners.
Period.
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