I have severe depression. Sometimes it lies dormant for over a year. Then slams hard.
I came clean. I apologized. I did therapy. I busted my ass proving myself over a nearly 3 year timeframe.
Now-poly is working for us.
I think he's being dysfunctional and using his mental health issues as an EXCUSE for shitty behavior.
Which-makes it an unviable situation.
My depression means I have to have time to go workout. I need time to see my therapist. I need help sometimes getting to the therapist or help setting up the SAD light or encouragement to go workout.
It does NOT mean I get to mistreat my partners.
"Love As Thou Wilt"