I didn't find hooking up for casual sex to be hard. Although my online presence lasted under a month I think, there were lots of woman looking for something either above board or below board depending on your demographic.
I must admit I felt saved when Redpepper came along. I was way out of my element and doing things I wouldn't have if I was more sexually aware and healthy....I broke contact with the people I had "met" and am glad it's over.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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