Originally Posted by bsviking
Dagferi. You're right. This is a polyamory board. Maybe it isn't the right place, but I couldn't find a better place to start.
Spock. That is the point. She's every bit as bothered by her feelings toward him as I am. She was freaked out by the fact that she cheated on both of us with the one night stand. She said afterwards she doesn't want to sleep around. She just wants to be with both of us. I'm thinking we're probably in different places in terms of an open marriage.
So let me try again, since the wall of text might have been too dense.
She is in love with two men. That's perfectly acceptable, given we are in a poly forum. What's the problem?