Well I told him I won't choose and we had a huge fight that ended with me shoved up against a wall. so.....I have no self respect if I try to work this out anyway.
Neverwhere - exH, we have a son together.
Amanda - Neverwhere's 1st wife and one of the reasons my marriage to him ended. They have three sons together.
Mark - Neverwhere's brother. We are dating. He is mono.
JBR - My boyfriend of 8 months, also poly, has kids, we live together.