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Old 11-18-2013, 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat View Post
It doesn't sound like your relationships adhere to the primary/secondary model?
No I do not.

I know I would not be happy having my wants and needs seen to second to someone elses. Ie having to change my plans with my partner because something came up with my metamour. Health problems, family emergencies and kid issues not included. So I do not play the whole primary secondary game. I do not believe in treating others as a back up plan.
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Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.
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