my guy is 26 and said right away he was in it for the long houl. 22 is young, but he is an adult and want to be in a relationship with you. It may be too soon to plan a long-term relationship, but don't rule it out. If you treat him like you booty call, that is what you will be to each other. I don't mean plan your 2nd wedding next week, but everybody has got to plan their lives a little. Tell him; "I know you possably dislike being told what to do, and even plan much in your spare time. I want to respect your freedom. At the same time I plan the other stuff in my life and so do you. How can we practicall see to it that we get to see each other? I would like to make you a priority"