Look into Buddhism.
They know a lot about changing bringing out your Inner Self, the Divine within you.
It doesn't matter how many external things you change about your life. All the fresh air and green tea in the world won't make your life better unless you change from within.
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).
The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."