Butch and Murf sound like two equal relationships...so you don't agree with boundaries, fluid-bonding, and other such stuff for secondary relationships? I liken going sex parties to this.
Yes I have 2 equal relationships. I have since day one. I do not treat others like second class. The only people whose needs come above all others are my minor children.
The only boundaries I enforce are ones over myself. I have been fluid bonded with both men since May of 2012. My body my decision. I kept Butch informed of my decisions and allowed him to make his own choice.