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Old 11-17-2013, 02:41 AM
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Butch and Murf sound like two equal you don't agree with boundaries, fluid-bonding, and other such stuff for secondary relationships? I liken going sex parties to this.
Yes I have 2 equal relationships. I have since day one. I do not treat others like second class. The only people whose needs come above all others are my minor children.

The only boundaries I enforce are ones over myself. I have been fluid bonded with both men since May of 2012. My body my decision. I kept Butch informed of my decisions and allowed him to make his own choice.

40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.
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