Butch has ABSOLUTELY NO SAY IN MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MURF.
He has no say about what we do, what we do, and so on.
IMO butt out of their relationship.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.