Originally Posted by london
Sex is a normal part of relationships. Your boyfriend should be happy that his skill in bed is part of the reason you fell for him. I don't understand this sex negative view that enjoying sex with someone is shallow or bad in any way.
Yes I agree. I don't think it is like a philosophical view for him, he is a thinker but he is usually not this dark. Most days he is rather proud of his skills! The problem is his need for reassurrance. I am far, far away, I live with my husband, his relatives are asking all sorts of questions (because he is proud enough of me to bring up the subject) and he has a history of being in a mostly-sexual relationship that I think hurt his feelings (and he is a sensitive guy).