NOW I understand how you manage to continue responding! Because you DO have the time.
I tried the "reading all of the posts" from certain posters, figuring out what they were getting out, understanding the limitations of their experience that were driving some of the "off kilter" comments they made.
Ultimately-I found myself too busy to continue.
Primarily because-I have kids to raise still-and I don't have the desire or energy to take on another child or pet or project.
Was that out loud?
Hmmm. I'll have to consider if I am sorry or not...