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Old 03-24-2010, 08:26 PM
NeonKaos NeonKaos is offline
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Originally Posted by redsirenn View Post

What about the weirdness with a partner actively looking? Do any of you experience that?

All I have to say is that when I met my husband or any of the other people that I've had "relation-ship" with, I was not actively looking then, either. So, I say to myself, why should it be any different now?

So I guess the answer is "no, I do not experience the weirdness, but if it happened, then I suppose it would feel weird". Not because of the "poly" factor, but because of the "actively looking" factor.

I think you are well within the territory of "normal" for experiencing the weirdness in this. I'm not sure what you can do about it though.
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