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Old 11-14-2013, 02:26 PM
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Location: Rhode Island
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Originally Posted by Magdlyn View Post
So there was an imbalance in your relationship with your gf.
It's not so much an imbalance...we can both be like this. I'm more vocal about it though, she tends to grin and bear it, pulling back more. So in a sense, I guess there is an imbalance. I'm trying to be more self-reliant and it's hard.

Originally Posted by Magdlyn View Post
But when you got other sex partners, your gf got jealous? She doesn't want to feel pressured to be your everything, but when you got others, she then felt jealous?
She didn't get jealous. At this point we were "broken up" so she was on her own trying to move on. She didn't get jealous, she just couldn't possibly believe in it. She's raised Catholic and believes profoundly in marriage in a more traditional sense. Not that I don't, I'd love to marry her and enjoy the happily-ever-after's with her. It's just, as I fear, and as you said, is it a lie? Or perhaps, is it just too much stress for us? It's like a damned if I do, damned if I don't kind of situation. Hopefully as we talk we'll find a better resolve.

Thanks again for all the support, everyone, it means a lot. It helps.
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