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Old 03-24-2010, 01:05 AM
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Welcome Erischild !
I enjoyed reading your post! It sounds like you are in a good place and ready to treat yourself !!

I have struggled in my life with the need to control things....not only myself, but everyone around me. In the process of learning how to let go, I have come to realize that the only thing I can control is how I react and/or respond to the circumstances that are presented to me on a daily basis. But how do I respond to each circumstance? Well, that depends on what I want.

So- knowing what I value and having a vision of what I want is the most important thing first of all. Allowing myself to define a vision for myself- any vision - has been so important for me. I see you doing that.

Hoping to hear more from you!!
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