I'm in a committed relationship with another woman, with whom I share a house. I also have a bf who is married to another woman, but I see him several times a week. Yes, it's just as warm and yummy as when I was in a mono marriage, only better, because I never really felt mono deep inside. I always wanted more variety than that one man.
Being poly ain't easy though, and I would say, especially since you must be very young and still getting to know yourself. Plus, there's no rush to get into another deep relationship now, when you're still not over your ex and comparing everyone you meet to her.
Have fun, get to know people, have lots of sex and adventures. Know thyself, ask hard questions, be courageous, if you feel jealousy, learn to deal with it.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 60) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 38) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (monogamish, former swinger, 42, M) since Oct 2015
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years