Can I just ask you why is one of you feeling left out when swinging with couples? Surely there are two of you and you get to play with two people, isn't that one person for each of you then?
More chance being left out in a threesome isn't it? *confused*
Anyhow, I know you spent some time reading yesterday and saw a bit of the Unicorn Hunting discussion so you kind of knew what to expect so...surprised by the post tbh....