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Old 11-13-2013, 02:29 AM
london london is offline
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And I'll say again that a particular configuration or particular rules are often attractive because of flaws in the relationship or the people in it. If you want to argue that those flaws don't make one an altogether bad person, I agree. It can make them a bad person/bad people to get involved with relationship wise though. Like the author of this article pointed out: yes, trust is lacking between them ao they need rules for extra protection. I've discussed that trust issues in a relationship offer the newcomer a choice between discovering you have an insecure metamour or a untrustworthy (potential) partner. And that's the only point I make.
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