Honestly-I forgot about the thread.
The reason I started this one-was because there were some comments regarding it (when I linked it in a totally different thread) and didn't want that conversation to derail the thread.
But I'm totally ok with them being linked or not.
I think the topic is an important concept to consider.
We spend a lot of time giving advice regarding what is or isn't a good idea in poly.
But there's always alternatives to the "norm" even if the "norm" here isn't the greater population norm, it's still just a norm.
There's a lot of negativity towards people who do poly in a way that "breaks the norm of utopian poly".
But there doesn't seem to be so much understanding of why, as individuals, people's way of doing it may actually be the best way for THEIR group.
"Love As Thou Wilt"