Swinger to Poly
We got into swinging because the Mr. was interested in a 3some and the Mrs. was bi curious. 10 years later we have found swinging is mostly couples and one of us always feels left out. For the Mr., he doesn't like losing his wife in the midst of playing and for the Mrs., she doesn't enjoy watching the Mr. We are very much in love and we prefer being together in a 3 way connection.
Our best experience has always been with a bisexual girl but that is very hard to find.
We want to find an exclusive bisexual girlfriend instead of swinging...
We thought about gay clubs but worried that might attract the wrong type. We tried meeting single vanilla girls but that doesn't work.
Do we try monogamous sites with girl looking for girl?
Do we try dating separately and be honest until one of us finds a good match to bring home?
Are there any online websites with poly girls looking for couples