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Old 11-11-2013, 03:35 PM
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I didnt lose faith in love when I dated so many guys without finding one who really worked for me, and vice versa. Yes, it was very frustrating. Yes, there are a lot of weirdos and horny jerks out there. I just kept at it, and though I was so lucky to find miss pixi when I was just starting out, I finally found Ginger after 3 years of looking and working at the job of dating.

I just don't get the idea that my primary relationship with miss pixi is secure and will never end, whereas my relationship with my married bf has a short shelf life. I feel quite compatible with both, and we all have a good handle on time sharing, etc. Ginger is in my age bracket and we've both BTDT with having kids, so we don't have disparate life goals.
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Mags (poly, F, 62)
Pixie (poly, F, 40) together since 2009
My bf Kahlo (single, poly-friendly, M, 45) since August 2017
Seeing Rick and Glori (MF partnered, both 33 and poly) since September 2017
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixie's bf for 3+ years

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