He just friended me again and told me that he thought he would give me a "boost" as I seemed determined to resolve the issue. He didn't mean it as a surprise and apologized if the intention was misunderstood.
I think I had just hoped that this could be a mutual agreement and not a unilateral decision. I'm tired of others making decisions for me and I don't like making decisions for others.
I just wanted another day or two to decide if this was what I/we needed, not have it sprung on me.
Perhaps if this was his way of agreeing with me, then maybe it would be best. But as a door closing, not being slammed.
Life is about the journey and not the destination,
so what better way to know life
than to wander all the roads and paths set before you.