Originally Posted by Polywife12
I can't have sex with anyone even in the lifestyle because I have an allergy to condoms.
I know it's a minor nit to pick in the greater scheme of things, but have you tried non-latex condoms? If it's not the latex but rather the lube or spermicide you react to, well, they also come in a variety of types. There's sure to be some combination that'll work for you.