This isn't someone who has been seeing someones boyfriend for a month or two. She has been doing this 18 MONTHS. She is probably going to ruin a 7 year relationship.
So yeah she needs a "kick in the teeth." Or as I prefer to call it a reality check.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.