Originally Posted by Luv2HaveMore
I appreciate what you are saying, I just don't think this person needs to be kicked in the teeth right out of the gate
While I don't think anyone here has, uh, yeah, I think that is EXACTLY what she needs. A harsh reality check that says, Wake up!
Because otherwise, her wishful thinking might just take over and she'll think it's just a normal, "challenging" situation. It's not challenging; it's impossible.
Can impossible problems be solved? Sure. Sometimes. But the likelihood isn't promising.....unfortunately....