Originally Posted by Dagferi
I am not sure where we fall I'm this argument.
Most of the time my relationships run parallel to each other but there are tinges due to the deepness of my relationships they cross paths. For example Murf is in my boys lives. He has become very important to them, so they want him at important events along side Butch and I. Also holidays and sometimes for us to see each other he has to come spend time at my home with Butch due to life events and scheduling issues.
Just sounds like you've organically evolved into what works for you.