Originally Posted by london
Because in a family style of poly, the expectation is that you spend time as a "family", ie altogether.
But what does that have to do with insecurity and control issues?
i.e. What's manipulative and controlling about three people mutually choosing to spend time together?
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).
The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."
Last edited by SchrodingersCat; 11-08-2013 at 10:40 AM.