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Old 11-08-2013, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted by london View Post
Because in a family style of poly, the expectation is that you spend time as a "family", ie altogether.
But what does that have to do with insecurity and control issues?

i.e. What's manipulative and controlling about three people mutually choosing to spend time together?
As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.

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