Welcome to our forum.
It doesn't sound like you're weighted down with a bunch of rules which is good, but always consider "weighing yourselves down" with safer sex rules! I suppose it's different when you've been with a particular partner for a long time and know you can trust them, but, just be careful out there.
Perhaps you figured out you were poly by "trial and error?"
Anyway, take some time to explore our threads and boards and see what calls to you. Post whatever thoughts, questions, or concerns you feel inclined to share, which will usually get multiple responses but if you get "lost in the shuffle" (it's a bustling site), post a fresh post and get yourself back to the top of the New Posts queue.
I'm glad you could join us.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"