What about the wives and husbands who suffer the fallout of a triad gone bad?
I also have an issue with people with a POP clause to their poly life.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.