LB... People with all sorts of configurations get called on their shit all the time.
Gorgeouskitten got called on the the carpet on her jealousy at the prospect that her ND wanted to date someone else.
I have been called on the carpet about an issue with my husband Butch and his getting involved with a couple.
There are many many more if you look.
I have a problem with anyone applying rules to someone rises relationships without the effected party getting a say. For an example a wife or husband saying no overnights with the gf or bf or you can only spend x amount of time with so and so cause I say so. I call these people on issues too.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.