Originally Posted by LondonGuy
I feel in my heart I do have the capacity to love more than one person and maintain those relationships healthily, but I want to reassure anyone I date that I will never put other partners needs first at the expense of theirs. So in this instance I wouldn't ever let my feelings for J (or any other girl I might meet) affect the love I have with S or the time I have with her.
Ummm, yeah... that's called "couple privilege" and not a very nice way to treat anyone else you get involved with. Do a search here for the term and read a few threads about it to understand.