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Old 11-05-2013, 05:14 PM
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If you're happy being monogamous, cool, but I don't think it's reasonable to sacrifice the benefits a poly relationship brings you simply because you cannot build your relationships in a way that pleases your current partner. People have to acknowledge that others develop relationships differently from how they do and part (a big part, I feel) of polyamory is accepting that and consequently allowing the people on the relationships to decide how they develop. Even if one of those people is an established partner of yours.
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