Originally Posted by Derbylicious
I am 'ok' with the situation, just not with being asked permission (if that makes any sense).
Not LOOKING for something to find fault with are we ???? <just kidding>
I suspect they were both just trying to be considerate as others have mentioned. Unless you are into the D/s thing I doubt it's more than that.
Be thankful. Like SchrodingersCat says - isn't it better to be on this end than the other ?
Deep breath. Smile.